Not all stress is bad. Stress that comes from things like winning a close ball game or receiving a good grade can actually motivate and bring about a sense of excitement for a teen. Positive stress associated with project deadlines or exams can even make a young person work harder and think clearer.
However, prolonged and intense stress can have troubling effects on a young person's emotional and physical well being, causing them to feel tired, anxious or even depressed. Stress overload lowers the body's immune system, thus making it more susceptible to illness or other health issues. Youths, their peers and parents should look for and try to control and prevent this type of stress.
Some signs and symptoms of serious stress that you should look for in a teen include:
Feels edgy, guilty, or depressed
Laughs or cries over small things or for no reason.
Has a negative outlook on most things in life.
No longer enjoys activities they once did
Expresses anger towards others.
Has headaches, stomach aches, trouble concentrating, thinking clearly, remembering, or stays tired.
Learning to cope with stress should begin at childhood. Parents can help their children learn to cope by modeling positive stress management techniques as well as having a positive attitudes and outlooks. It is never too late to begin these techniques to help your teen positively manage stress.
Management techniques are essential to successfully coping with stress. Some effective ways to manage teen stress include exercise, planning ahead, talking out problems and feelings, relaxing and setting reasonable goals and expectations. There are also many ways to effectively reduce stress that make your teen happy and relaxed including exercise, eating balanced, healthy meals and taking part in hobbies. For more information on ways to reduce and prevent teen stress, contact the Logan County Cooperative Extension Service at (270) 726-6323.